I will make sure I am prepared for our visit at our appt time, or I will give you a call letting you know I'm running late. Please do the same for me. Know where you are going...BE PREPARED!
Don't ever be early! I am never ready early and I would be very uncomfortable if you came 10min early and I was still doing make-up or hair! Or like today...being caught in my favorite terrycloth bathrobe...not fun.
And if you're running a couple of minutes late, fine:) 10 or more minutes late, please give me a heads up so we don't have any misunderstandings. I would hate to have you show up and I had made other plans because I hadn't heard from you:( Especially since I was looking forward to our spending time together.
I expect a confirmation call well before the deadline I give you. If I ask that you call me before noon (for example) and you don't call until 11:59...I don't get the message until 12:20...then it's not rocket science why we'll need to reschedule our appt. I don't mind if you call at 8am...just as long as it's well in advance of our scheduled time.
Do not let personal hygeine become an issue... If you need a quick shower so we will both be comfortable, that is fine.
Do not ever ask me to 'do things'. I find this not only moronic, but offensive. I enjoy the natural chemistry two people have. I'm sure we'll have lots in common and will enjoy perhaps a glass of wine, good conversation, and some relaxing fun.
I rarely have to reschedule...I will make it up to you in a grand way;} The champagne is on me!
If we have an appt. and you do not call to confirm or to cancel/reschedule, you may want to think twice before calling me again. We all have things that pop up at the last minute and a discreet call to reschedule can be a challenge...it is my experience that these are few and far between. So unless you have a great reason...then we will chalk it up to being star-crossed and go on our individual ways.